I noticed this “invisibility” recently myself. Which I attribute to menopause and the cessation of ovulation. I just assumed it was biology based, lack of pheromones, etc. It doesn’t effect my confidence though because the reason some people lack self esteem is because I have it all (family joke).
I get a kick out of male reactions to my daughters though, who are at that prime stage where they can stop traffic and boys forget what they were about to say, drop stuff, walk into posts, etc. The best part is all the minions from the full service gas station swarming the car, cleaning the glass. I always make sure they drive when it’s time to fill up, so all the windows get extra clean. The girls are still young enough to be astonished and giggly about it. It’s fun and cute to watch.
One is very Lauren Bacall/Grace Kelly in looks and demeanor and the other is a red headed Vivian Leigh with a Doris Day personality.
Lucky you! I still hang with my 20 yr old stud muffin son and that is fun too!
Kids are great! Especially when they move out! We are having some fun now!
Lucky you! I still hang with my 20 yr old stud muffin son and that is fun too!
Kids are great! Especially when they move out! We are having some fun now!
I'm 52, and in the last year have stopped coloring my hair. I was a natural brunette, and grayed prematurely like my dad, so I am nearly all silver.
Now that my hair is lighter it seems that people of all ages talk to me more than when my hair was brown.
I was checking out at Walgreens recently and the cashier was a 30-something male. As he started ringing up my purchases, he said, "did you find every....wow, you are really pretty". I was a bit taken aback by it - I'm not used to being complimented.