If you are white you are a racist (unless you are a democrat with power) and if you are black your can't be a racist (unless you are a republican, and then you are by default an "uncle Tom" or "aunt Jemimah"). I guess that is confusing too. I'll simplify it further so it's 95% "true".
If you are white you are a racist.
I believe that whoever mentions it first IS the racist.
Thanks! I now understand how complex Racism has become.