The simplest way a man can avoid having sons who turn out badly is not to have sex, ever, with anyone other than his wife. (One and only one wife, not one of several.)
I spent yesterday with my sons whipping the yard and our equipment into shape ,, then I made my youngest son a bowie knife from the used edger blade we replaced. They went to bed TIRED.
Happy belated Mother’s Day to you, TC, and Happy Father’s Day to the wonderful man who has given you a beautiful, American family.