I don’t think it’s as distasteful as when rich celebrities go shopping for “fashion accessory” children in the third world. I also don’t think using a surrogate to carry an IVF embryo of one or both of the “adoptive” parents is bad, either. This woman wouldn’t exist otherwise, so without knowing all the sordid details and thought processes of the parents myself, IMHO she should just STFU and enjoy being alive. It’s an opportunity about a million kids a year don’t get.
Yet consider that children get conceived by:
and surrogacy is one of those wrongful acts. It is akin to prostitution ---gestational surrogate selling (leasing) her body --- and baby-selling, which is a form of human trafficking. We can deplore this, even want to legally curb it, without slighting the human dignity of the child in the least.
- drunken one-nighter
- forcible rape
- seduction
- sexual assault on a minor
- incest
- drugged intercourse
- stupid move by horny teenagers
- selfish adulterous fling
- prostitution
- baby-selling scheme
In fact, it's because of our sense of the dignity of a child's life, that we don't want reproductive prostitution and baby-selling to be accepted in our society.