I would have been in his office MOMENTS after the Mass was over...he knows his obligation to advise the participants of who can and who cannot recieve and there is NO excuse to avoid this information...he is pathetic and you are.....too meek.
Stop that.....you can’t refuse Holy Communion because you THINK they might not be Catholic! I go to Mass every day and see a lot of people that don’t kneel and give no outward sign they are Catholic.