In the ghetto culture of the urban Parasite Class, one cannot earn respect, because nothing respectable is done. Thus, the urban Parasites demand (at gunpoint) the trappings of respect, and lash out violently when denied such. It's all they can do within that cultural framework. Honest work ... building, growing, making ... are largely unknown. Self respect, and respect for others can only be earned; respect cannot be simply demanded.
Oh yes it can be, and most of us have experienced it; some of us almost daily, depending on our proximity to the perpetually entitled, angry and violent culture.
I call it "passive violence;" the invitation to play their sick game.
The most common is running red lights; or crossing a street anywhere, anytime, as slowly as possible, daring drivers to react the way they themselves would react, with instant violence. The indolent's view of freedom and equality.