Learn to read, write and speak proper English, not just the curse words.
Learn history...all of it...not just African/Black history.
Get married and stay married and have children only by your wife/husband.
Learn to deal with, respect other Americans of different races.
Don't drink to access and don't use drugs or smoke weed 24/7.
There was a time when educated blacks began to sound like educated people speaking plain English.
Now, a black speaking proper English is reviled.
Blacks have a subculture that is unpleasant, and demeaning to women and others. It glorifies crime and drugs.
I don’t think blacks will meld into the American culture. Ever.