“Hey I have a severe allergy and might die, could you refrain from eating peanuts for an hour or two, please?”
“F$*$ you!”
Yes, this is FReeper civility.
On the other hand, if they want to sicc the FedGov on me, yes, f--- them. Repeatedly, and with various implements.
You asked politely and said please. That brings out more civility than being ordered to do something.