They live basically with the grandparents who make sure they are being raised right. Mom’s are single. Don’t like that part, but noting you can do about it.
But yes, you win the bet, they are very happy and healthy and spoiled in a good way. The oldest is 12, she makes A/B’s in school, takes piano lessons, and wants to learn horseback ridding. Loves to go fishing with her G’PAW and uncle. The 2 Under 3 are to young for anything yet, but they are bright, happy and healthy active little boys ahead of their age peers.
If a child feels unloved, unwanted, and grows up not sure if their parents even care for them well......