Part of the problem is the military not addressing what you have just said. They want every body to be buddies. that does not work between the sexes because of biology.
If a couple of normal guys go out drinking they are not going to be sexually interested in each other. Not so with a mixed group of men/women or homosexuals.
I agree completely. Here is a thread on the topic of why females should retain the cultural value of modesty: http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/3238621/posts