Because a domestic violence incident would never happen if there was no gun present, urging the husband or boyfriend to hit her. Fists, baseball bats, hammers, bottles, knives, and assorted random household objects are NEVER used in domestic violence. If it weren’t for the firearm, she never would be harmed at all.
According to the divorce attorneys that I know, restraining orders are routinely filed as a tactical move when preparing for divorce. Most of time, there is no abuse, it is just part of the "game".
To the people (Men) that have their 2nd Amendment rights taken however, it is anything but a game.