Morally, I think we’re on the same page. But personal moral viewpoints are not the basis for federal government actions - the Constitution is. Otherwise, you lay the groundwork for tyranny.
Abortion, any abortion, destroys every single clause of the stated purposes of the Constitution, and it grossly violates the explicit, imperative requirement in two separate Amendments, the Fifth and the Fourteenth, that equal protection be provided for every person, in every state.
“No person shall be deprived of life without due process of law.”
“No State shall deprive any person of life without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.”