I don't know that it's so much surprise as that it's totally out of their frame of reference. It's inconceivable a guy should ask, "What about me?"
Yet this entire social construct depends upon guys not asking that question. And those who have watched the feminist movement for the last 50 years are seemingly blind to the proposition...suppose men, as feminists did, decide the way things are doesn't work for them anymore?
As they increasingly are. They know not where they will go but they know they can't stay here.
Buckle your seatbelts, ladies...you ain't seen nothin' yet.
This is happening now.
The Democrat Party is having a massive hemorrhaging of straight males.
It will not be long before the “democrat party” is equal to “homosexual party”