Naps, I don’t have a problem with a mother being a surrogate to her children’s embryos. I’d do it for my child, WITH THEIR EGGS/SPERM (or donor if needed). But to ask your young adult child to do it is morally selfish. You make her be the egg donor AND SURROGATE???? Carry her own egg child???? This was not thought through and it is unfairly confusing to all.
I am deep within the third party parenting world. I approve of it but it needs to be done with consideration and lots of psychological support. Even GAY DADS know that your surrogate is never your egg donor. It is FRAUGHT with emotional issues, maybe lifelong for child and donor, when the donor carries the child. And this stupid couple did this WITHIN their own family.
And the reason they used their daughter? 1. The stupid mom wanted her own genetics Uber alles. 2. DAUGHTER CAME CHEAP. A real surrogate would earn $50k or more. These people were selfish.
I know. I didn’t realize that they were killing embryos during the process. I learned that later on.