Every screenwriter wants to be Joss Whedon and I think Whedon has a fantasy of being smacked around by small women. :-)
In Buffy the Vampire Slayer he was trying to turn stories of the waifish girl in danger on their heads and made Buffy superhuman, but that doesn't explain every other female character he has ever written.
But Firefly was wonderful. (Even though River did exactly as you say)