I know exactly what you are talking about... but look on the bright side... when you call the Help line you’ll get some nice girl in India who will tell you to uninstall Solitaire to fix the problem.
;-)
Notes isn’t quite dead for me but it’s at least comatose. There are hundreds of proprietary databases in there which justifies its continued existence.
Supporting Lotus Notes was an eye opening experience. It should be criminal to sell it.