I’m not sure that’s arguable at all. “born that way”
Decent children get molested, and it awakens them to be curious. Then they exhibit behaviors as a child that an alert adult can pick up on. This child wasn’t born that way.
I know two people personally, one who claims to be gay, and the other lesbian. They are the only ones that I know personally in my life. Funny thing though, is that they have both confided in me at some point. The guy confided to me as an adolescent that his baseball coach masturbated with him as a 12 year old, and showed him porn to do it. The lesbian told me that her uncle raped her when she was four years old. So, of the two that I know personally, both of them were “molested” in my view.