I totally believe you. I have a family member who has shared some stories with me. Very limited because he knows I would not listen and the stories he has told are mostly about others. One was about a girl with rape fantasies. I could not believe a person would place ads and go to such extremes...not to mention how dangerous. People are really sick.
one gay guy I worked with told me that he has uses for more than half an arm. I didn’t know what to say..complained at one point when one guy brought in a magazine with a gay Jesus, she called me an instigator.
felt like a little bit of a weasel, should have just asked him to not have it showing.