[tjd1454]

Oh but it is when you meet someone who sees marriage in the way that you do. There’s a lot of people today who don’t understand what commitment is to anything let alone within a marriage.

That's the key - commitment through thick or thin. Love means self-sacrifice and the desire to please the other, not seeking one's own desires.

[caww]

I think a balance....it’s never 50/50....nor was marriage designed for that. Sometimes it isn’t any % for a time as the marriage itself carries you because you’re both committed to the marriage....especially when you might not like each other for spell.

Love means a whole lot of things now days.....I don’t like to broad brush everything with love...it’s true meaning has been lost in this country.