I worked with loads of them in graphics...the stories I could tell.
I had a lesbian sister in law. Well she was ‘attention gay”. She had a black girlfriend too. Because being gay simply was not liberal enough to get here the status she desired.
When that didn’t work, she ditched the girlfriend and last I knew, rediscovered penis. But she got lots of sympathy for her struggle with ‘bisexuality’ after her ‘broken relationship’
Yup, I can relate.