It was sickening watching the older lesbos covert the young players into being lesbo. This is when I decided not not Play soccer. IMO for most women, being queer is a choice.
I dunno, being part Indian (feather) and Italian with high cheekbones, I’ve noticed over the years lesbos most seem to have flat faces and squinty eyes, squared facial bones for some reason. Our high school coach was super-butch in the early 80s and we hated it when she came in the locker room.
I always felt that acting on it was a choice, and have heard too many stories of women/girls giving it a try (and deciding it wasn’t for them)...so maybe there is some choice involved. To me it is a sad mental illness in any case; no amount of “acceptance” will ever convince those so afflicted that they are “normal”...