I’m not sure that you are not right in general; it is that I can see the parents confronting this horrible tragedy and trying to save all their children. If it had not worked, then it is easy to look back and say they should have abandoned him to his fate. No doubt he deserved it. Is mercy, when it works, the better for the entire family, perps as well as victims ?
The same principle applies with abortion. A repentant woman who killed her unborn child need not be ostracized as she once was, or is that a mistake ?
Who is saying there is no forgiveness.Get him out of the house and leave it up to the girls that he abused if they want to be in his company again.End of story.