That's already happened. You obviously don't think it's happened enough. When will it be enough? When he blows his brains out? When he's divorced and loses access to his own children? When he's fired from his job? When he becomes an alcoholic or a drug addict? When he's homeless? When is enough?
And remember, this is on top of the years of family healing that he's already gone through. So - how much more? You want to destroy him, hurt him, heal him, what? How much? When is it enough?
I’ll let you know when I think it’s enough.