The Grand Experiment of our founding fathers has ended and theres nothing that we can do about it.
WHAT!!! plenty we can do.
Never lay down your weapon. Our best weapon is that of Gods wisdom and grace.
Start policies that say all couples to be married at this church must be members for a year. membership is defined by 10% tithe, 20 series of biblical marraige courses and vows celebration course prior to marriage.
Love them with the word of God, most will not go through it.
Remember: To live is Christ to die is gain.
So marry, but here are the terms.
Dont marry them....you may go to jail. Oh well bring your Bible. You may get a paid for law degree while in there and some time to reflect.
Either way keep the faith. God is good.