Once you go done that road of “explaining”, it never stops.
You may get a lousy cop. Do what he says. Sign the ticket, drive off free. ‘’Then throw the book at him.
He is in control until you can leave.
She was scared. Frankly after seeing the video, I don’t blame her.
Sorry, I have tried the last part. Have you?
I was a much younger man charged with 'exhibition driving' while operating a car that could not squeal tires going uphill on patch ice. A friend who was riding shotgun, who had not given the officer any flack had his arm slammed in the door (early '60s car) while getting out of the vehicle as ordered.
Contesting the charge resulted in being fined, even though the officer who wrote the ticket was not present in court.
As for any official redress, YGBSM!
Since then I discovered if you want to sort it out, do so calmly, respectfully, at the scene. Otherwise, if that can't be done you are stuck.
That is reality.