He was not being perfectly pleasant to her. He had attitude. He asked her if something was wrong and when she answered him he got mad and ordered her to put out her cigarette and get out of the car.
She didn’t seem suicidal to me.
So by asking her if something is wrong, that demonstrates he had an attitude?
How do you figure?
Do you know that a lit cigarette can be used as a weapon?
What do you think would happen if someone jammed a lit cigarette into another person’s eye?
Hmmm?
What do you think could happen?
After he ordered her to put out the cigarette and get out of the car, don’t you think things may have gone better for her had she obeyed those lawful orders?
I do.
And no she didn’t seem suicidal to me either, though I imagine that she probably seemed more suicidal at the time she actually committed suicide.
You do not have control over whether he’s an a-hole. You can’t complain to anyone while you are pulled over.
Get yourself as quick as possible to signing the ticket. The next day, take it up with authorities.
YOU are not in control.