I hear what you are saying. Although I wonder how the order to put out the cigarette had anything to do with officer safety.
Yet, it seems clear, to me at least, that those orders to put out the cigarette and then get out of the care were the direct result of her following his express direction to explain what’s wrong, and him simply not liking the words that came out of her mouth—even though she directly and honestly responded to his question. I don’t think cops ought to be able to penalize people for doing exactly what they are ordered to do, or simply saying what they are thinking.
Saying what they are thinking goes on and on. For hours.