I've seen what "normal" looks like these days and I am profoundly not impressed. Moreover, the athletic programs of a school are not related to the education provided.
I'm willing to bet you know zero or very few homeschooled kids to make them out as abnormal crybabies. There's a reason this topic rages you out - curious to know why.
Who I do or do not know is irrelevant.
My point is that disdaining the school but demanding to be a part of its athletic program is hypocritical.
If you hate the school, stay out.