A little personal history, my mother married a pedophile and I separated from them all as they accepted his “healing”
My daughter is safe, he never touched her but I had to threaten him to his face that I would kill him for badgering my older sister and beating my mother. You have no clue how much anger can be stored up when your children are involved. When my daughter emerged from her mother I was there, and at that moment every man in the world became my enemy, only relinquished totally when she married.
She did go off but I have suffered that very look from my Stepfather when he was describing my sisters body to me and my brothers.
Ungh, I can only imagine the range of emotions...
I would probably have done the same as you.
God Bless.
SZ