How can you sit here with a straight face and say that a man willingly taking part in sexual acts that can kill him, and others, in ways that are horrible, is level headed?
Have you or he ever visited an AIDS ward and watched a gay person die? At what point does a level headed person make the call that such a death is a fair trade for anal sex?
He may be a very ‘intelligent’ parson in every other aspect of life. He may be a fine person otherwise. But he has a mental illness and you are in denial about it because you love your brother.
I have had friends die of AIDS, and it is horrible.
My brother has told me he’s not a fan of anal sex and prefers oral or manual acts. That’s as far as we’ve gotten with it.
I know plenty of straight men who want nothing more than to have anal sex with their female partners. It’s not for me, but I don’t question it.
There are plenty of gay men who live out their lives without doing sexual disease ill to themselves. There are plenty of straight guys who have all sorts of illnesses.
There is a wide wide variety of sex that can take place between two people of either sex. That can include anal action as they see fit.