Posted on 11/18/2015 7:13:09 AM PST by SoFloFreeper
You are not a bigoted monster if you say that this is not normal.
This is the major issue for all of us. Prayers for this woman and her family as they cope. But we are lectured by the liberals that we are bigoted if we don’t accept all this trans-whatever nonsense as “normal”.
That’s a sad story. One wonders if the husband’s deep shame about this mental situation contributed to his desire to pretend to be normal, and thus it was the shame over a societal judgment about his mental illness that led him to marry this poor woman and basically ruin her life.
As she says, this is a mental disorder. Only really, really sick people pretend that it’s normal.
It’s not surprising that some in her family were more concerned about the miscreant than the innocent ones suffering from sin.
Huh?
Why did she go from a business owner to a $10 an hour job?
He proceeded to tell me that his earliest memory of doing this was in kindergarten,
Imprinting is part of Gods design for good. To have wholesome parents at the moment of readiness.
Interesting that the internet is beings stripped of this information. Used to be much more info on it.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imprinting_(psychology)
There's a big I in the word sIn. That "I", if unchecked, thinks only about self - and not about what it's doing to others.
This one devastated a good wife, his children, probably his relatives (not to mention what he is doing to society) and looks like he is going to do it again.
The sad thing is that such forfeit heaven for eternal life in flame - unable to move, no love, no water, no food, no friends - on an ash tray.
Even he could turn to Christ, repent from his sIn, be cleansed and be loved forever. But the "I" in sin tends to consume and ensnare one. For now is the day of repentance, now is the day of salvation. For life is but a vapor and the chance be gone in an instant.
Narcissism coupled with sociopathy, plain and simple. I-Me-Mine is all that counts to them..........................
Terrible story. What than man did was the epitome of selfishness. I feel sorry for this lady and her kids. This is most certainly NOT normal. Horrible!
“Few people understand the impact these decisions have on the family members involved.”
Nope. The cloaca maximus of pop culture makes the errent freak so much more important and stylish than such banalities as wife, children and home.
Tzeitel: Hodel!
Oh Hodel,
Have I made a match for you!
He’s handsome,
he’s young!
All right, he’s sixty-two.
But he’s a nice man,
a good catch,
true?
True!
I promise you’ll be happy,
and even if you’re not,
there’s more to life than that...
Don’t ask me what.
______________________________________________________________
People like this mentally ill man disgust me. When you marry and have children, you have a moral obligation to the children to give them a safe, nurturing environment. It is selfish and evil to give in to your own needs at the expense of your spouse and children. Whatever urges you have, if they do not serve the needs of the family, they should be suppressed or postponed.
If he wanted to be a pervert, he should have waited until the children were grown and married before spending family money on lingerie and ball gowns. My wife went without new dresses for several years when I was starting my business because money was tight, and the first few dresses were for business dinners. I got new suits because they were essential for business, but she didn’t get new dresses for three or four years. Unfair? Yes. Necessary? Also yes. If he could not be happy without his own lingerie, that’s his problem, but it is immoral to make that the children’s problem by spending family money on a personal hobby or a politically correct identity game. There’s more to life than being happy - and taking care of your children is near the top of that list.
Even if in his mind this man is a “woman”, he should be a “woman” in jeans and a t-shirt if his family needs that money. If he “has to” have the women’s underwear, that’s what WalMart is for, and he can waste $10 every few years on a 3-pack of panties, not spend so much that it destroys his family. My wife is more womanly than almost anyone else I have ever met, and she almost never wears ball gowns or expensive lingerie, even though we can afford them now.
Like most liberals, this mentally ill man was shockingly selfish. Liberals disgust me.
Evidently a horrible cisgender bigot and transophobe>s
This is a very good article. It’s truthful, not hyper religious and fake moral, but REAL moral. This is about a dishonest spouse, a cruel human being.
Yes, it is not fair to be born with a brain dysfunction. Whatever brain disorder you have, it is a burden you were given and you must bear it, sadly.
But it is not ok to hide it from your spouse. As soon as you realize what you have, you MUST SHARE IT and you have full responsibility for your spouse and children being kept at the best standards you can. It is not their fault you are like this.
HE made all the mistakes here, just as bad (or worse) as if he had cheated. Because he did.
Real morality dictates that the trans person come clean and agree to divorce and give the other spouse everything possible. Period.
Lost assets in the divorce.
I posted it and don’t know what any of that means.
“Huh?”
Some of these guys want to play lesbian. I heard about one wife who hit her limit when her husband wanted to pretend he was a 14 year old virgin being deflowered by his wife. That is when she called it done and divorced him.
I think when you fall off the edge there is no bottom. Once just continues in free fall.
I'm not surprised. He is both vicious and selfish, and he needs an audience. Once he lost the wife and children he was abusing, he needed to replace them to regain that audience under his control. Liberals are like that, whether they choose transgender or another path to harm those they pretend to love.
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