Posted on 11/24/2015 4:30:01 PM PST by Clintonfatigued
Your room name is hurting people.
According to a recent student op ed, a bro-dude calling a room in his house a âman caveâ is not just obnoxious but truly harmful to women and a âdisgusting patriarchal myth.â
âWhile I think itâs perfectly acceptable, and even healthy, to have separate spaces where one can enjoy time alone, the gendered language around âman caveâ is pretty gross,â Kalani Ruidas writes in a piece for Golden Gate Xpress, San Francisco State Universityâs official student newspaper.
Lest you think that what a dude decides to call a room in his own house isnât hurting anyone, Ruidas wants you to know that the idea of a âman caveâ amounts to a âpassive dig at femininityâ â yes, the very idea of femininity! â because itâs like saying that âwomen are such a burden that theyâre restricted from that zone.â
(Of course, some people might think that some rooms are called âman cavesâ just because theyâre filled with traditionally âman-likeâ things. However, intelligent people know that this could not be the case because gender roles obviously do not exist.)
âTheyâre the makings of a shrine to big business that has man-cavers nostalgic for a time when they were happy . . . guys should get over the feudalistic idea of a man cave allowing them to be the âlord of their manorâ in a room they can call their own,â Ruidas explains in her piece, which is titled âMan Caves Perpetuate Patriarchy.â
In addition to perpetuating patriarchy, Ruidas argues, âman cavesâ can also make racism worse . . . because âa man cave is a place where a man devolves into a grunting subhuman that leaves sexist and racist comments on message boards
(Excerpt) Read more at nationalreview.com ...
I LIKE my “dungeon”...
My Bar is down there... my guitars and amps... my gunsmithy area... my electronics... Guns hanging over the stone fireplace...
It IS a Man Cave. And will ALWAYS be a Man Cave.
Khent asked if you have coordinated colors and fabrics?
PC does not extend just to the boy scouts.
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