Yet the jerk never bothered to tell the guy before going to the hotel.
Like what did HE think, that the Marine would be “cool” with messing with a dude in a dress?
It is sexual assault, in my opinion, in that the guy did not give consent to a man or a man pretending to be a woman, or a “woman” with a penis. It should be criminal sexual assault by the trickster. That does not excuse murder, but neither does it make the dude entirely innocent. He was in the process of committing sexual assault.