My wife told me to buy another gun two months ago, and even suggested the particular one to buy. Thank you, dear.
Took her to a big dealer, and after handling all the .380s and the Ruger LC9, she handled the S&W 9mm M&P Shield, checked its sight picture -- and announced, "That's it!"
She left the store with a boxed Shield under her arm, singing, "Happy Birthday to meeee..." '-)