Pat,
I was going to respond to your post last week wrt wishing you had a man for company and didn’t get to it. Trust me, I totally understand - would be nice to have dinner or a drink or a movie with now and then and just generally share discussions - both serious and fun ones. Still can turn a head now and then but not as much as when I was in my 20’s and 30’s. Can’t help it - I like men and they’ve seemed to like me (I’m saying this with humility - it’s a conversational and fun thing, not necessarily a looks one). Anyway, guess I need to put myself out there more - for so long it’s been long work hours, home and spending time with my nephew and other family members. I’ll have to start checking out dudes at church more ;-)
At any rate, sounds like you are a real dude magnet. You Go Girl!!! (with the caveat, except for Fr. Tom, of course ;-)
I don’t know about being a dude-magnet but it’s a concept I could wrap my head around.
I’m not sure how old you are but no matter, you’re not getting any younger.
Now I had, after my husband died and I made a decision to buy my daughter a house across the street, planned that my retirement would be spent enjoying my daughter and granddaughter’s company.
And that got blown all to hell.
I had no plans to get involved with any man in any fashion, figuring I’m beyond all that.
Of late I’m beginning to think differently about this.
I’m thinking the lawyer for now. I’m not really sure he knows I’m alive but I’ll work on it.
;)
And you too should look around. No matter what anyone tells you, being a fifth wheel is no fun.