“I just care about the hypocrisy. A person can make a mistake and come clean about it - I’ll respect him, then. But if he keeps running away from responsibility, I wonder about his ability to give a rat’s a$$ about me, and my little issues.”
This actually not a matter of a mistake but of habitual behavior as there are multiple women involved over a substantial amount of time. Thus, not a one time lapse in moral judgement but a lifestyle choice.
The circumstances just make it worse and that is as shame
We don’t know how many women are involved - there’s a lot of smoke, I’ll admit; but no real facts yet.
All we know is that we’re witnessing deflection, instead of a straightforward addressing of the issue of infidelity.
That worries me.
-JT