I feed and touch and talk One that should be ferrel has always crawled up on lap. She even would crawl up my pant leg to be picked up when a kitten. OTOH Tiger Tom. May disappear for days or weeks. He is huge and seldom eats at the table -—lots of mice
Does the Tom get into fights with other cats??? I have always had my pets fixed, the first kitty I had, had a litter the male kiitty killed all of her babies I was devastated, bit them all in the neck and killed them!!! I have always fixed my animals since that happened!!!