No, what I’m pointing out is standard practice that is generations old.
Also, you can’t deny that a lot of this “I’m special, pay attention to me” horse-crap feeds upon itself and has become a vicious cycle thanks to collusion between libertarians on the left (ACLU types) and the right.
The way forward is, I believe, the populist revolt that has seized the right, and to a lesser degree the left (which is still wandering around looking for grievances to further divide over).
I was responding to this part of your post:
“Maybe a solution for dads would be to stop at a restaurant or some such place with a single stall bathroom before going to Target.”
This is appeasement and avoids the problem it is not a solution.