Would you feel the same way if it was a man who raped the 13 year old boy? By your logic, the teen boy wouldnt have his youth stolen.
That’s not exactly a natural relationship, is it?
No I would not feel the same, if a man was having sex with a 13-year-old boy or girl then that to me is a much worse crime, but luckily for society the law isn’t based on my opinions, the law is blind and the woman is punished the same way as a man is and that is rightly so.
However, my point remains that a 13-year-old boy having sex with a very attractive young woman is going to experience little or no “trauma”. He is most probably having the time of his life and will look back on it in misty-eyed old age with very fond memories indeed.
That would likely not be the case with a 13-year-old girl or boy who is having sex with a much older man. That’s the way the world is, I do not live in a socially engineered world where the law decrees how one should feel.
I don’t subscribe to the opinion that if the law insists a man who has decided to become a woman is indeed a woman, that I must think so too. Being the law-abiding type I will go along with this legal fiction, just don’t ask me to believe it.
Likewise if the law says an attractive young woman who has sex with a compliant teenage boy is “raping” that boy, with all the horrific attributes of such an offence if it was a man who was the older sexual partner, I will abide by the law.
Just don’t expect me to believe it.