Believe me I know. I’m a woman who, as a divorced mom back in the eighties, didn’t get a red cent of child support. I actually worked two jobs and didn’t alienate the children. The rules went draconian in the 90’s virulently misandrist.
Now my current husband has a dem, ex-shrew who works for child protective; possibly the worst mother in the world, ironically, remarried to a six figure guy, yet she milks hubby dry every week. Oh and alienated all three kids in the bargain.