I couldn’t agree with you more. Hope your husband gets the treatment he needs and thank him for his service.
Appreciate it, thanks! Trying hard to let go and let God handle it—my husband has done everything he can and is now just waiting for DRO review. In the meantime he has had two major surgeries ( abdomen and chest), numerous times fluid being drained out of his lungs, chemo therapy, trial drugs, immunotherapy...every day he is alive is a gift—he is alive well past the initial “terminal estimate” they gave him. His faith, natural optimism, and very sassy humor keeps him going. We are blessed beyond measure with wonderful medical folks, family, friends, neighbors who constantly lift us up and remind us there are good things and people in this world. They all know I get my rant on whenever the VA can be blasted. My calmer husband just quietly holds my hand and says it will be ok. Sigh. Thanks for letting me vent. I know God is in charge, but I still get angry!