So who is to dictate the perfect balance ?....I smoke tobacco and drink beer ...I roll my own cigarettes (way cheaper)...I brew my own beer. I am going on 55 and am still at the same weight and height (and I look great} as when i was in high school....some people have a good metabolism.....** did the partying like most in the teen’s and early 20’s...just gut’s the JEANS (misspelling was intentional.)
“So who is to dictate the perfect balance ?”
You are.
We are free men. It is up to us to determine our path by the choices we make.
It is up to each one of us to find the balance that makes us happy.
Others may want us to do this, and even more may want us to do that, but in the end our life is them sum of the choices we made as individuals regardless of anyone else’s input, wanted or otherwise.