I would expect that if one of us disparaged someone close to you but this was a complete stranger we are fighting about, nopardons is wrong about the remarks made however it was not made about someone’s relative here. I just think that nopardons has a right to feel whatever they feel we don’t have to like it but we don’t have to fight about it either, if any of us have a handicapped relative I would just make sure I didn’t invite nopardons over for dinner or a visit of any kind!!
We agree to disagree, one post maybe, he/she/it would not stfu