Quality time does take effort. And I would advise the young people to first cultivate friendships with a number of opposite sex associates, and from that pool select someone to pursue an interest in mutual quality time.
But as another poster noted, millenials have a serious ADHD problem, and just don’t want to spend the time on dating. Or anything else but video games, for that matter.
Yes, and jump right into sex then the girls complain about not finding a good guy. Most of the teens and people under 25 I see online they have pics like they’re attempting to cultivate a porn star look or persona. Very sad.