not justifying either scenario, but the latter one- gay sex- is a deviation of nature- that adds an extra level of despicableness to the act- and in many cases is far more damaging to a child psychologically in the long run
let’s assume for a moment that many of these young boys are indeed gay. That still wouldn’t make it ok any more than a straight woman enticing a straight young man.
If it’s a gay man going after a straight young man, or a straight woman going after a gay young man I could see equally disturbing repercussions.
Let’s agree that the laws regarding age of consent should be respected and followed in all cases.