People bandy that word about, at the drop of a hat, without considering, even for a moment, that a necessary component of hate, is fear. Thus, you demonstrate that you don't fear Michelle Obama, but Dan Savage most assuredly fears Melania Trump. Case closed...
the infowarrior
Not a bad take on it.
Something is sure up with him. To me she’s a non-entity. (not a put-down) She’s not pushing an agenda, and she’s not even in the White House most of the time.