1. Change your appearance...
So telling my wife many years ago that she HAD to get plastic surgery for a face disfiguring cancer surgery that she had before i met her was wrong. Ok.
Didnt’ stop me from dating her but I told her the world is cruel and it would be harder to get higher level jobs in NYC.
And YES, I wanted her to look as pretty as I knew she could.
The results were great.
And they rebuilt her sinuses, which had she not gotten that done, could have led to all sorts of lung problems.
Feminists are idiots.
There are some lines re telling her to change her appearance.
What you did sounded like the best for so many reasons.
But a woman should keep beautiful for her man. Within reason. If he married her with small boobs, he can’t force her to go get balloons inserted. Or if her boobs deflated after having kids, he really can’t do more than discuss getting implants. Women can’t force a man to go under the knife for penile enlargement inserts either. Listen to her reasons - huge boobs aren’t always fun to wear. And that poor man with a 16” inch p can’t wear shorts any more!