Are you now going to tell us that men who have money, or something to lose, are not running around shooting their sperm all over the place?
The idea that a man will be forced to provide financial support for someone else's child for 18 years is the very definition of victimhood.
I would agree with you if this was 40 years ago, but not now. Men (with few exceptions) either pass and enforce the laws that cause this, or do nothing to challenge it until it's their turn. Nobody is forcing this on men. Men are forcing it on each other.
I suppose the billions a year American men spend on prostitution is from men "who are far too broke" to make child support payments. If men spent 1/10 of 1% of the money they spend on prostitution, which would amount to tens of millions, in support of MRAs, it would go a long way in helping them fight these injustices. That they don't shows their priorities.
Fine. Silence is consent, and by refusing to stand up against this over the past 40 years men have consented to it, and therefore by definition are not victims.