The problem with men is this: men make women and kids miserable with their drinking and drugging, refusal to pick up after themselves, irresponsibility, violence, and stupidity. So a prescription for more men in the house is not going to solve the problem.
What will solve the problem is to have men and women who know how to control their base instincts, are healthy mentally so they are not self medicating with drinking and drugging, working for a living even though they regard it as beneath them to work for another, leading by example and doing away with authoritarian beatings and whippings, educating themselves and getting in the habit of picking up after themselves.
See?
I am sick of this “they need fathers” mantra because that is not what they need. They need adult men who are loving, responsible, menatlally and emogtionally hatlthy.
Well yeah that too but the pre requisite to that is they have to be there .
” who know how to control their base instincts”
but then they would not be acting from their authentic self /sarc