[Sequoyah101]

No, someone would have to go. My situation is nearly as bad though. I”m married to one so damn dependent she never lets me rest. I’m tired of being a meal ticket, busting my butt to make someone happy and no sooner do I finish one thing than something else is wrong or she and the other people I’m around want something else from me.

I’m coming to my end and the only way out is to leave.

[txhurl]

But will she even understand why?

[Hugh the Scot]

Honestly Friend:

Drive. Don’t let anyone else map out your journey...

You. Drive.

-H.

[bboop]

Get her Dr. Laura’s book on what women need to know about marriage. Read it together. I got it for an acquaintance who was not happy. He said his wife read it, saw herself in it, wept bitterly and changed her ways. Women have been poisoned by feminism and some of them don’t see themselves clearly.

My husband says that many of his colleagues’ wives do not cook. They bring home MacDonald’s or eat from the freezer and expect their husbands to do the same. That’s just mean.

I spoke to a checker at the market who was about to get married, and told her how lovely it was to be married and congratulated her. She said she was getting grief from her girlfriends!! That it was stupid, etc.

[TChad]

If there is really no way to avoid it, plan your exit very carefully, with a good divorce lawyer's help. Try to avoid winding up under the thumb of a feminist Family Court judge. You won't be able to divorce her.

Best of luck.

[Bigg Red]

Have you attempted to have a conversation with her about this?